Yes. A girlfriend already..
Okay...I know some people will frown on this since he is only in the fifth grade. I found out that they have been "Going Together" since the 4th grade. To me that sounds like a record.
Now before anyone gets their panties in a wad, I do not let them go on dates and as far as I know they don't even talk to each other. They just tell each others friends that they are "going together".
I have tried to talk him into just being friends and he says,
"We are."
I tell him he is too young and he says,
"For what?"
I tell him he should just hang out with the boys and he says,
"I do."
I want you to focus on your school work,
"of course, Mom".
Then he says why do you not want me to like girls?
Okay, so he is a lover and not a hater.
It all started in Kindergarten when I picked him up from school. He sat in the back seat crying all the way home. I asked him what he was crying about and he said the song on the radio was sad. "Sad? what do you mean?", I said.
The song was called, "Mr. Lonely", I will never forget it, it was hilarious,sad and cute all at the same time.
He then told me his girlfriend broke up with him that day. Kindergarten, and he is already in LOOOOVE...
I told Greg that night, he is going to be the one to get his heart broken. You see Jack is a very sensitive and caring young man.
He will make an awesome husband one day.
So what to do, What to do?
It just seems so grown up.
am I overreacting?
She is an actress and a dancer. She was in a play at one of our theaters in town. The tragedy of it all was that she had to kiss her co-star. (doesn't this sound soo grown up already?)
So he asks me if I would take him to her play.
He had to see his rival.
The boy that she would be kissing on the cheek, had to be sized up.
He said he really wasn't all that worried because her co-star was a dancer and didn't play football.
Probably shouldn't have to worry, Jack.
So...I said yes.
The play was great and I was very impressed.
I could see the sparkle in his eyes as we watched her perform onstage and I thought to myself....oh my...he is going to get his heart broken one day.
And Jack, no worries about her co-star.
Mom's know these things.
She really is a sweet, polite, and precious little thing so I can't really blame him.
After the play,
he walked up to her.
Her face turned bright red.
He handed her some flowers.
Mumbled something like "great job!"
and then he ran away...
Classic or what?



7 comments:
First of all Jack is georgeous and it is no surprise he has a girlfriend. I am sure that girls are after him big time.
Is he going to kill you for posting this? :)
You are a good mom to keep cool about everything and even take him to the play! I think I am going to be mean and jealous with Adam & Colton's girlfriends. Lord help me...and those poor girls! :)
nikki, I don't know. He never reads it and if he did he probably would kill me. now i feel bad, But I think he will get a good laugh when he's older. i wish my mom would have documented this stuff, because I can't remember anything. Alzheimers kicking in already..
Ahhhh, that's sweet! Just give him the impression that this is exactly what dating is all about -- hanging out with other friends, not going out with each other alone... ;-)
Cella is not yest aware of boys in the slightest, thankfully. Hopefully I won't have to deal with this in the 5th grade!
LOL...We are doing the boyfriend thing with our 5th grader, Miah. Same thing, never really talk, hang-out etc.
BUT--Big brother T. and Dad have both made it a point to lock eyes with the kid and ask him crazy questions like, "have you ever had a broken arm??"
Can't wait till she's 16 and can actually date...
Rose, you are hilarious in your description of the co-star/dancer in the play...."mother knows these things". HILARIOUS!!!! Your exhange with your son was priceless.
I have one son who is girl-crazy and has been for years. My other son could care less. It does happen so much earlier nowadays. It kills me. I feel like their childishness is being taken away earlier and earlier. You are a good mom for buying her flowers for your son to give to her. I'm proud that you kept your little cat claws down. HA!
Another great story Rose. Don't you love how children give you good bloggible (is that a word???) material!
You are a good mom for taking Jack to the play. I bet it was a good time for you two to spend together too.
Jack sounds a lot like my Danny boy.
Aw man! I just commented and it said it didn't get sent??? Anyway, I was just saying that you are a good mom Rose for taking him to that play. A sweet time for you to spent with him. He sure is cutie too!
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